Have you at any point confronted a circumstance where you nearly need to ask your young ones to come clean with you since you accept his answer was not what you truly want to hear? You continue asking and afterward, come the enchantment expression, “it is evil to lie!”
In the event that you are grinning as you read this line, I am grinning at you too.I definitely know the appropriate response. We as a whole did that. Customarily, subsequent to rehashing a similar expression our words fail to attract anyone’s attention. The expression, “it is corrupt to lie” become excessively normal on your lips and your kid’s ears yet, regardless you need to impart similar qualities. What choices would you say you are left with? Not much, yet there are a couple of hadiths (Prophetic words from The Prophet Muhammad PBUH) and sections from the Quran that you can delicately ingrain into your kid’s brain. Perusing them with your friends and family every day may assist you with your central goal, yet additionally is fulfilling and helpful for both you and the relatives.
Here are some prophetic words and Quran refrains to supplant your, “it is wicked to lie” state..
The first is this, from surah Al-Baqarah refrain 42, in which Allah state in an inconspicuous way, “And don’t blend truth in with misrepresentation, and don’t hide reality while you know.(2:42)”It is a decent suggestion to impart into your youngster about talking reality particularly on genuine issues where truth is the target we look for. When utilizing the Quran stanza, not just you are doing an ibadah for edifying the family with Quranic values, yet additionally leave your youngster with next to no space to go keep overstating his falsehoods.
Besides, there is likewise a mess of a section from the Quran named Munafiqoon which implies The Hypocrites. Here, the munafiqoon are given 3 attributes one of which is the liars. I won’t exhortation you to utilize this section towards your kid as it is very unforgiving to consider somebody a munafiq (a poser). Rather, instill to them the risk and Allah’s confinement for being a liar.
Not just the Quran show us the attributes of a faker, however it likewise instructs us the stuff to be excused. In the part, Al-Ghafir, refrain 28, Allah said that, “On the off chance that he is a liar, his lying will bounce back upon him; however in the event that he is honest, at that point some of what he guarantees you will occur for you. God doesn’t control the unrestrained sham (40:28).” This section can be the best one to supplant your critical, “it is evil to lie” express. It is acceptable once in a while to show the youthful ones the outcomes of their own activity with the goal that they are increasingly vigilant of what they need to absolute each time they talk.
Close to every one of the refrains from the Quran, the Prophet Muhammad PBUH additionally once stated, that the individuals who lie are not among his devotees (Riwayat Muslim). As a Muslim, we accept our Prophet as our pioneer, thus, whatever that he prohibit us to do should likewise be followed. Once more, it is so respectable to have the option to show your kid this worth instead of bothering. Ibnu Qayyim likewise once cited that the tongue will give you what’s in his heart regardless.
Ultimately, I would likewise love to share this section from the Quran as an update for us, particularly guardians that in the Holy Quran, Allah said in Surah Al-Taghabun (64:15),”your belongings and your kids are a test, however with God is a magnificent prize.” In another part, Allah referenced in surah Munafiqoon, stanza 9: “O you who accept! Let neither your assets nor your kids occupy you from the recognition of God. Whoever does that-these are the washouts (63:9)”. We should all take as much time as is needed to consider upon these refrains every once in a while as we develop our youngsters. The greater part of all, for what reason don’t we remind ourselves about these stanzas first before we share them with others? Notwithstanding being grown-ups, we also need to address ourselves every now and then, In Shaa Allah.